Is fear of success or fear of failure? Who are you doubting, yourself or those around you, the naysayers?
Do you have faith to keep taking the steps you need to to get where you want to be?
I recently read the following quote and it got me thinking:
"Faith is taking the first step even when you don't see the whole staircase."
- Martin Luther King Jr
I've always tried to live for the moment, and in the moment, and it has cost me dear and I've not reached the goals I set myself. That also got me thinking; who is going to take care of me when I'm old and grey if I don't continue to do what I need to do to secure my future?
You? My friends who will also be old and grey?
You see, I'm at that time of life when my son soon won't be "needing" me so much, he's planning to go off to university, he's learning to drive and has purchased his first car. It'll be me and my lovely partner who'll be here.
So I've resolved to review and reset my goals and go for them, no one else will but me, and I'm doing it on faith, I don't know what's round the corner, I don't know whether I'll get there, but I know that if I don't simply take that step I'll never know and that is my biggest fear, not finding out whether I can.
I'm very fortunate to have some very wise people around me, I have a wise future father-in-law who has an equestrian background, and his favourite saying regarding people in the equestrian world is that "some people know a lot about horses and horse behaviour, but they don't know what they don't know." how true is that about me and you? I don't know what I don't know, but I'm willing to find out what I don't know so I can reach my goals.
I'm doing it on faith that the staircase referred to above will show itself one step at a time as long as I keep taking steps, will you?